I also had an invasive lobular carcinoma diagnosed in August 2024. I started hormone blockers in December after finishing radiation after 2 lumpectomies (the second one to gain clear margins). I started on Anastrozole but had significant joint issues with my hands that impacted my fine motor skills so moved to Exemestane which I have had less issues with. Blocking estrogen will always cause some side effects for most of us - dry skin, hair breakage, joint pain of varying levels, hot flushes, headaches but it’s different for everyone. Some people tell me they barely notice the difference. The truth is you’ll only know what impacts YOU once you try it. The upside is you’re able to move to other types easily and they all impact you slightly differently but your oncologist can help you navigate that.
While I certainly don’t love the impact it’s had on me (after years of painful periods my entry into menopause had been a symptom free breeze for the 2 years I’d been period free so I feel pretty cheated) but for me knowing this decreases my chance of cancer recurrence means I’ll stick with it. I will say Veoza tablets have been a god send and have made the hot flushes bearable - definitely ask for that if you get them.
My best advice is try it, try the others if you need options and then make a decision. Only you will know what you’re willing to live with and how you’d feel if you chose not to take them and the cancer came back.
Best of luck.