Hi Jenny we all have a different trip you are not a fraud BC is cancer and it is alot to take in. This is a great site to ask Questions.and chat to others.
I'm on Tamoxifen for 10 years as well, have been on it since August last year. I suffer from terrible hot flushes, which have settled a bit these seem to be worse at night. I also suffer from body aches , I'm taking magnesium which helps a bit (one of the girls on line recommended this) The other side effect no one tells you about is loss of labido, another little issue. For me I don't like taking it, but if it means protecting me from further cancer I will take it.
Take care of yourself it is a sh... trip no mater how bad it is ( i have never been able to call it a Journey