my situation is very different to yours, I am retired and have a supportive partner, do the schools where your children go know about your diagnosis, can they help in any way, how is GP helping you? do you have a local hospital you can get in contact with about home help, have you accessed a social worker yet? please ring the cancer council in your state and speak to an oncology nurse and explain your family situation,do you have family and friends to help out, this is not a time to be shy, if they offer you take it please, yes, it is hard on a day to day basis let alone with a family to look after as well, you cannot do this on your own, there is support out there you just need to navigate your way round, do you have a local breast cancer support near you, a lot of this can be done via phone so you dont have to go out and about, make a list of everything you want and need and start from there, but first and foremost you need help, the cancer council is really the best place to start just be patient and go through the menu options and you will get to speak to someone, I am going away today for a couple of weeks but will have my tablet with me for emails, please reach out, there are plenty of people to help you,I find it hard enough and I have all day to do what I have to, I have a cleaning lady once a fortnight courtesy of my local community hospital via the domicilary people and it only costs me $10.I also have the community nurse come to give me a couple of injections,and that is only $5 but that is in south australia, please reach out that is what these services are for,
take care and be gentle with yourself, you can do this but you do not need to be alone,
wendy55