Whirlwind

Hi Whirlwind,

WOW, I got exhausted form reading, please breathe xx

As Loubegg said, welcome crappy you have joined us but we are all here and sounds great you have family support.

All little thing help, children, give them Canteen contact details they have excellent services, drop in centres, outings, camps all sorts of things you need to concentrate solely on you for the first time probably. Work stuff? If in a union get them to sort it that's what they do best. little tip: what I thought was my best friend for last 33 years hasn't been near me since I told her in January 2015 and my partner for last 8 years ran for the hills?? Unfortunately I cant lose sleep on it that's not my issue. My cancer and treatment is my issue (not saying this will happen to you) but it does shuffle the cards on everyone.

I guess all I am saying is you need to concentrate on you rely on others, hubby and children to take in the information for you whilst you take baby steps each day. Eliminate all the things you cant control, and wish mum a happy 90th with love xx the 24yo will sort the wedding plans and you will get to enjoy the wonderful day. My boss said to me now is the time you allowed to be a little selfish. Be kind to you and others will fall into place. Love and light :) We are here too