whinging when theres no need to whinge
Hi there just need a rant. So yesterday I go to my Pilates class and as unco as I am still enjoy the experience mostly, I'm going to try and improve the range of motion in my left arm (mastectomy left...
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Margie! Hell NO don't delete it LOL
If you can't let it out and say exactly how you feel here, where the hell can you? This is the complexity of this whole thing that NOBODY gets but US! Absolutely we are all grateful to be alive BUT that doesnt sometimes diminish the debilitating effects of treatment, which have forever altered our quality of life. I too have days where Ive had an absolute gutful!!! but then there are alot of days too where I work around the things that are forever changed. You wouldnt be normal I dont think if you didnt crack it now and again, we've certainly earned the right and it is difficult when youre quality of life is so affected.
Humor absolutely has gotten me through most of it, helps me somedays to not get bogged down in it all then I refocus to the things I can do LOL I think I'm marvelous!! I can now ride 4mins a day on my bike WTF!!! I used to ride 40mins!!!! BUT all relative a long road and so in someways I guess I go oh well that was me then this is me now...so my expectation is less.
Hugs Melinda xo
If you can't let it out and say exactly how you feel here, where the hell can you? This is the complexity of this whole thing that NOBODY gets but US! Absolutely we are all grateful to be alive BUT that doesnt sometimes diminish the debilitating effects of treatment, which have forever altered our quality of life. I too have days where Ive had an absolute gutful!!! but then there are alot of days too where I work around the things that are forever changed. You wouldnt be normal I dont think if you didnt crack it now and again, we've certainly earned the right and it is difficult when youre quality of life is so affected.
Humor absolutely has gotten me through most of it, helps me somedays to not get bogged down in it all then I refocus to the things I can do LOL I think I'm marvelous!! I can now ride 4mins a day on my bike WTF!!! I used to ride 40mins!!!! BUT all relative a long road and so in someways I guess I go oh well that was me then this is me now...so my expectation is less.
Hugs Melinda xo