This website has been my saviour, and all the wonderful people who give great support and even greater advice. We sympathise, and understand, we are all going through it together. I was given relief by chatting to people on this website. Answers from the Breast Care Nurse, who introduced herself after I had surgery, and rely on 3 doctors for advice. I always take their advice and trust in their knowledge. The day youre told "You have Breast Cancer" is one non of us will ever forget. I stood outside my car and burst into tears and said to my husband (both dressed in our work clothes) - "Now what are we going to do, we are supposed to go to work?" Here I am 3 months later, 2 operations, and half way through Chemo in a blink of an eye. The nurse said to me after my operation "Your life will now revolve around appointments, and you will have plenty of support" So my dear, we wish you well, and remember THERE IS ONLY ONE YOU. Every one is different, and try to keep saying to yourself "You will be ok, you will sail through!" good luck XX Bel