I hear you. I am 6 months post radiation after 7 months of chemo and bilateral mastectomy and axillary clearance. I keep telling myself that this is my new 'normal'. However, things keep changing. My Rad Oncologist said that the fibrosis (scaring) from the radiation will always need managing ie stretching etc.
Thankfully I don't seem to have any neuropathy from chemo so most of my aches are related to the surgical and radiation sites. Lots of hyper and hypo sensitive areas, tightness and I have now developed some cording which really needs intense massage.
I guess I want to say you are not losing your mind and thanks for posting because I feel I sound hypocondriacle complaining and the bottom line is no one can tell you what's normal as everyone's body responds differently.
Oh cancer treatment - the gift that keeps on giving!
Anna B