I am new to this site too Cath, am not sure if im putting my messages in the right place. I was diagnosed a yr ago, have had a lumpectomy, mastectomy and chemo. It all felt like a dream to me as well but you seem to find an inner strength to deal with it all. I have just had my annual scans etc and they were all clear, thankfully. I was in a real state waiting for the results.
I am back at full time work now (yuck) but at least i feel like i am living a normal life after putting everything on hold for 7 mths.
good luck
Mary x