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socoda
10 years agoMember
Well Hello!!!!
Nice to meet you all!!!
Thought I would take the time today to introduce myself rather than just read everyone's posts. My name is Cath and I have only recently been diagnosed. My mastectomy surgery has been set for the 15th June and I have been scouring posts since last week gaining invaluable information on every aspect I possibly can from what to take to hospital, i.e clothing, creams, through to effects of chemo (Jdakic you are a gem!!!). I have already bought my wig for when I lose my hair and have been making lists (for every possible contingency), exercising to increase my fitness levels and have just had a week off from work (which had been planned for a stay at home holiday since the beginning of the year) which I utilised to make appointments and clean, sit in the sun, read, colour in and basically get my head around things!! Perfect!!!
I'm feeling pretty positive and am incredibly lucky to have a wonderfully supportive network which consists of family, friends and work friends. I am looking forward to my journey and becoming BC FREE!!!!
I also look forward to reading many more posts and to being able to contribute.
What a wonderful network to belong to!!!!
Thanks so much :-)
28 Replies
- socodaMember
Hi Bev,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!! YAYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!! I can see we are going to go step for step with each other as my birthday is also within one week of my surgery and I was saying to my family that I couldn't ask for a better present than to be cancer free for my birthday!!!
I hope your birthday and your celebrations are sensational and that you are recuperating beautifully. Xx Cath
- BevkkMember
Hi Cath,
it is amazing how quickly they send you home. I had two nights but dr said if I was public it would only be one night.
Definitely ask for Meds to go home with. Panadol just not enough. And don't hesitate to ask for something stronger in hospital as well. I asked for it as soon as I got a niggle of pain. My dr was worried about high heart beat but as soon as I had the pain relieve that went down.
I had all my family here today to celebrate my birthday and getting through the surgery.
Good luck for this week. Bev xx
- socodaMember
Thanks Brenda,
Yes the countdown is certainly on. I hadn't even thought about take home meds so I sure will now ;-). I just can't get over how fast ladies are released from hospital after a mastectomy, mind you in some ways I think it's for the best. Have you had a chance to have a get away now that you've finished your chemo? I hope so. And I hope your doing brilliantly. Thanks for your kind thoughts. Take care Xx Cath
- Brenda5Member
Not long to go now. I had single mastectomy and I was only in overnight and back home the next day. A word of warning, make sure you get some take home meds. For me Panadol just didn't cut it. I had to have a second op 3 weeks later to get all my lymph nodes out and once again just an over night stay but by gee I went home that time with a script for some good pain meds. Good luck with your surgery.
- socodaMember
Hi Bevkk,
Yayyyyyyyyy for having had your surgery and being released already. I can't get over how fast the release from hospital is cause I certainly don't class a mastectomy as being a small operation! Well done on having the drain removed before you left hospital too!! I personally am not scared of the operation as my surgeon has been so informative, so just can't wait to get it over and done with. My workmates had a good luck luncheon for me on Friday and then told me they had organised for me to leave work early as well so I'm very lucky to work with such a fantastic group of people.
How lovely to have your new Pj's to wear at home - makes going home even more special and particularly with this cooler weather too! I hope that you are comfortable, cosy and recovering wonderfully from your surgery. All the best. Xx Cath
- BevkkMember
Hi Socoda,
you have a great positive attitude. I had my left mastectomy last Wednesday the 8/6/2016. I was allowed home yesterday. I bought some lovely new pairs of button front Pjs but in the end didn't use them in hospital. I found it easier to just wear the unflattering hospital gown. Especially with drains,nurses etc checking wounds. It is nice to be in new pjs now that I'm home though. I am one of the lucky ones and had my drain removed before I left hospital. The breast care nurse was lovely and also gave me a bag for the drain. I will donate it back as I won't use it.
Fear of the unknown was my biggest worry. Now I'm through the operation I realise it wasn't as bad as I feared.
Hope your upcoming operation goes well and you gave a speedy recovery.
- socodaMember
Thanks Kester,
I'm hoping you're doing incredibly well!
And I already have the plans for making a huuuuuugggggeeee batch of chicken & veggie soup. Might have to have a full day of cooking various meals on Monday as I have my mum, my older sister and niece here for my surgery and I'm sure we can have a wonderful day filled with laughter, fun and cooking together so some fantastic meals to look forward to as well!!!
Thanks for the lovely message. Xx Cath
- KesterMember
Hi socoda, don't think I can add much more tothe wonderful adviceyou have been given. The drain bag is invaluable. I slept with mine on. Makes it so much easier not having to worry about them slipping around. I filled my freezer before I had surgery and thar has made things so much easier. Nicer than takeaways too. All the best and stay positive, hugs, Kester
- AnonymousNot applicable
Thanks Honey xx??????
- socodaMember
Tracey B just realised I didn't send a cuddle back - so sending one to you too!!!