Hi Sandy
I hear you - I know I was almost at breaking point between weeks 3 and 4! "Excuse me if I'm allowed to drive why can't I dress myself in reasonable fashion and move my arm a bit???", waiting to see oncologist, etc. it certainly wasn't happening fast enough. My saving grace with dressing was the couple of half button t-shirts I found at Kmart and the front zip fleecies that my daughter found for me - they were either being worn or in the wash!!!
Then suddenly it was almost as if - have chemo and radiation plan, am driving, getting to physio - realised I had much increased movement and the pain was minimal!!
So as much as you might not want to hear it Sandy - it will happen!!!
Thinking of you, Dette xxx