Well all the ladies have given you much good advice... Dont know what else I can add really... But enjoy ur weekend. Do something great that u enjoy and it will take some time to get back feeling like u.... It does take a while to get use to your new breast / or no breast... I dont think it matters much about if u get the reconstruction done at the same time or not as either way its still not gonna feel like urs... Its something we all have to get thru, but try not to worry to much about that now. take each moment as it comes and each emotion as it comes. think positively we are all here for u & we have all survived. We can all beat this. If you feel like talking contact a councillor that specializes in breast cancer, they are the most beneficial I think. You can always talk to us, but I get the most from my councillor and great advice on how to cope better. but yes plz update us on ur progress.