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Kimfree
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11 years ago

Until Now

Initially diagnosed in Oct 2005 when I was 42.  I underwent a lumpectomy, radiotherapy and chose to have chemotherapy which was offered as an option.  Five years and one day after, it was discovered that I had metastasis in three of my right ribs and a large tumour in my spine.   This tumour and a subsequent one in my pelvis were treated with radiotherapy but a second, lower down tumour in my spine remains untreated because of its position.  In January 2013 cancer secondaries were discovered in my liver.  I've had so much chemo that I forget which ones I have had!  Xeloda was one. However I nearly got a whole year out of Abraxane with very few side effects and I am now on the brand-new-to-the-PBS Halaven  I started on this in early December when it was found that breast cancer cells had spread to the lining of  my left lung.  Peripheral neuropathy is being a problem on the Halaven, as is insomnia but my quality of life is still good.  I am married but my husband had 3 mini strokes (TIAs) in 2013 that were finally determined to be due to the stress of my illness.  Luckily he fully recovered.   I have very little other family support and friends are not near as we have moved around all our lives.  However neighbours are being lovely and new friends help.  Frankly this all sucks!!!!   I definitely have down days but I decided I didn't want to spend what was left of my life crying so I focus on the little, lovely moments of the day to ge through.  

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  • Sucky! Sucky! Sucky!  I feel for you Kimfree.  I find all that I can do is put one foot in front of the other and take each day as it comes.  I basically don't know what else to do.  You are a brave woman and have travelled a long road so far.  All my best wishes.

  • Dear Kimfree

    Gosh my love and thoughts. Where are you? On this site there will be someone I have no doubt in your area. You need a cancer buddy. Cancer victims not only completely understand but have an excellent sense of humour! We are not going to say "stay strong" "you look good" or avoid delicate foggy filled subjects. I am in Mandurah WA and have just been up graded to stage 4 and also being bounced around 3 hospitals in full circules for treatment which is making me dizzy. New assholes are about to be torn in some of these degree flashing professionals soon if I don't get some concluesive action and stopped being mucked around with. I am obviously just a guinea pig that can drive............Over it. Chins up pink lady

    cyber hug Sarah54

  • You poor thing:( it does suck. I had a lumpectomy Oct 13, radiation & chemo. I have fears of a return. My partner was diagnosed with cardio myopathy during my chemo. He is coping ok with medication. I'm glad you have neighbors and friends, some support. I can understand about your down days but you have a good plan to enjoy the precious moments. My wish is that you have plenty of them. Wishing you all the best, big hugs to you,

    Hazelxx

  • You poor thing:( it does suck. I had a lumpectomy Oct 13, radiation & chemo. I have fears of a return. My partner was diagnosed with cardio myopathy during my chemo. He is coping ok with medication. I'm glad you have neighbors and friends, some support. I can understand about your down days but you have a good plan to enjoy the precious moments. My wish is that you have plenty of them. Wishing you all the best, big hugs to you,

    Hazelxx