lanilumps71
14 years agoMember
Unraveling!!
Has anyone used the bc psychology service?
Went into shock yesterday, had the worst fight with my partner of four years and now he wants me out! Told me I have to get my stuff out of the house with...
Hi Lani
It's the new kid on the block. Of course we are going to fight with our partners! This is stressful, life changing, confusing - the list goes on and on. But, at this point in time their job is to stand there and take it! My sister who normally questions or challenges me has clearly stated "Sue, if you need for me to stand on my head in the corner all day, then that is what I will do". That is called "support". We didn't ask for this. Any man who can say that to a woman going through this has no soul and no moral compass. That being said you are better off without him. I totally agree with everything the girls are saying. Talk to family and friends - tell them you need them. People in your life just have to step up!
You need all your strength. Talk to every psych professional you can get your hands on. This is your life, your journey, take charge of it and choose who you will let in.
Love Suzieq xxoo