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wndsrfn
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12 years ago

Ultimum

Well here we are last or Ultimum one this Thursday and my amazing friends will be there. So overwhelming still how much support and love they have shown, especially my best mate. Plus my cousins and Aunts have been so supportive just that extra tight hug, smile or just wanting to sit close and chat. Have been awesome. As well as the support from my sister and 8 year old niece (so wise for a youngster). This adventure is almost at the end of this part and the tamoxifen tablets next with trying to get back into my 'old' life which will be different as this adventure changes you so it won't be my old life but my 'new' life. Decisions will need to be made on work - to continue with what doing with an unsupportive boss but supportive co-workers, take a step back and have different stress but supportive boss or stay where I am and just apply for positions and continue with photography until takes over. Who knows what the future will bring - guess just try to live in moment and look at all opportunities and 'give them a crack' as who knows what will happen when you take a risk. Plenty to ponder when recovered from ultimatum. Maybe a few weeks north fishing, exploring, taking photos will help.
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  • wndsrfn's avatar
    wndsrfn
    Member
    12 years ago
    Wow. All I can say is wow and thank you. And yes let's nail the bitch that bites and have a red wine soon to celebrate.
  • wndsrfn's avatar
    wndsrfn
    Member
    12 years ago
    Wow. All I can say is wow and thank you. And yes let's nail the bitch that bites and have a red wine soon to celebrate.
  • wndsrfn's avatar
    wndsrfn
    Member
    12 years ago
    Wow. All I can say is wow and thank you. And yes let's nail the bitch that bites and have a red wine soon to celebrate.
  • Terri-Anne's avatar
    Terri-Anne
    Member
    12 years ago
    I told myself that I wouldn't blog on this sacred site. To me sacred for all the warrior amazons tackling this journey. But my friendship n love for you wndfrn will never alter. We have a bond that no disease will conquer. From the initial doctors visit to the ultimatum chemo . Day by day it's just another brick in the wall. As a bff it has been a hard journey but a journey of love n complete awareness of your needs . Ok we have had some crappy times when things made you so angry with the world n family but we got through. I gifted you my family who love you from parents husband siblings children n grandkids. I figured with all that love you will see this through. As for our other to bbf's who could ask for more. You have a blood test fairy a cleaning fairy and a light entertainment fairy. We aint going anywhere. We all can do this. Ps Im arranging !!! My mammogram as of today. Lastly you have taught me strength n through lots of tears but mainly laughter our glass is always half full. Red wine preferably but optimism n love are a powerful thing. Lets kick the bitch that bites .