Hi Leila,
I'm triple positive with IDC BC. Stage 3 high grade. It was initially diagnosed as Stage 2 but they changed the stage after final pathology.
I had surgery just over 2 weeks ago. I had the choice between a lumpectomy or a mastectomy, and decided to go for a lumpectomy (I'm 36 and even though I've breastfed 2 kids my boobs are in pretty good shape ;)). I was also booked in for a sentinel node biopsy at the same time. Woke up from surgery and they had done an axillary clearance based on the sentinel node biopsy, so that's been an experience! I finally got the drain out yesterday and I feel like a new woman. A tender woman, but still!
My breast care nurse came to see me in hospital after my surgery and after she became involved in my life everything has become so much easier. They are amazing women, and so if you're yet to see one just hang tight. They will find you!
Since surgery unfortunately I've found that while they were able to remove 2 tumors, my breast tissue is completely full of DCIS and the surgeon has recommended a mastectomy. He said it's not showing on scans, and only with pathology so it's impossible to remove otherwise. I'm going for genetic testing (I have an aunt who is BRCA 2 positive) and depending on the results of that I may be recommended a bi-lateral mastectomy and reconstruction, so we've decided to wait for the results of that so we can possible have only one more surgery (although the thought of a bi-lateral mastectomy and double reconstruction in one surgery makes me very nervous!).
In the meantime, I start AC chemo on Monday, after which I'll have Taxol and Herceptin (they are suggesting the injection for the Herceptin which would be great!). Then possible radiation (although that's still being decided based on the mastectomy situation) Then I'm told hormone treatment for 10 years. It's a lot to take in.
I've decided not to go for a port, but possibly a picc line for the second part of the chemo. It's hard with little kids, anything foreign in your body seems to be a magnet for little elbows and little hands. I have terrible veins too but my breast care nurse took me to see the chemo nurses and they had a look and said 'lets try them out before we make a decision' so that's been a positive for me.
Please feel free to get in touch. It looks like we are going through kind of similar experiences on a kind of similar timeline! I've found that even though there are so many people around it can still be a really lonely time.
Good luck for your surgery Friday (I checked out your blog ;)).
I don't really post on here much unless I have a question (I don't really feel I'm far enough into my journey to help yet!) but I've been almost doing a 'journal' (mainly because it's cathartic) so if you want to check it out it's here: myboobjourneyblog.wordpress.com
Naomi xxx