You are most welcome. Sounds like you are doing all the right things with your girl. It certainly takes the focus off of us..
Shortly after I was diagnosed I read a couple of peoples blogs that took them all the way through their treatment (really wanting an idea of what to expect). One woman wrote a letter to her tumor the night before surgery. She thanked her tumor for opening her eyes to some important things, said she would never forget what it had taught her and then said that it was time for it to go. I found her approach a bit odd but as time has gone on, I totally get it. There are lessons to learn and I hope to get each one of them. Sounds like you are working on the same type of approach with your family.
I am quite the control freak as well. That is probably why it was so important to me to have my plan. I have been very lucky with my chemo, I've had minimal side effects and have been able to continue most of the things I enjoy (including daily workouts). I'm good and sick of it now but that comes with the territory.
Again, good luck and do let us know how you go with your treatment plans!
Yvette