Hi Raye,
after the shock of finding out you have cancer all the treatment options sound so overwhelming and confusing, just too much to take in all at once. The thing is you don't have to take it all in right now. All you need to do just now is build your strength, both physical and emotional, so that you are prepared for surgery. One step at a time Raye.
my diagnosis was June, surgery 2 weeks later then chemo started 6 weeks post-op. The surgeon gave his recommendations then I made the decision on how far I was prepared to go. The same happened with the Oncologist. They printed out pages with several recommended chemo treatments. The info included stats on survival rates with only radiation but no chemo, then 10yr survival rates with both possible treatments. They also gave me stats on chances of cancer recurring. It seemed like a burden at the time to have to chose your own "poison", but knowledge is power and the Docs fully respected whatever decision I made was the right choice for me. Talk with your team, especially the Cancer Clinical Nurse, they're on your side and really want to help you through this difficult time.
Remember you are not alone, you will make it through this, and every day there is always something to be thankful for.
wishing you all the best Raye, let us know how you go, xxX ??