Hi Kath, the fear of the damn thing returning is always with us. I'm a Triple neg. stage 1, grade 3, lumpectomy ( 2nd surgery required to gain clear margins) lymph glands clear. My treatment was the same as yours which I handled ok ( except for damn shangles) I had one month of Radiothreaphy. Also went ok. So I finished active treatment last July. As you have probably read everyone is different so my probs doesn't mean you will experience the same. My main probs is my gut. I feel like I have something stuck in my left ribs cage (BC on right side) it was painful at first but with the help of medication is now just annoying, I have had a colonoscopy and the one down the throat ( can't think of the name) anyways turned out I had silent reflux which has damaged the area (I was prescribed during chemo, nexium but didn't take it because I never experienced heart burn, so I thought) . Also have been told I am lactose intolerant and have diverticulitis (nothing to do with chemo) maybe my age. I'm keeping active, yoga ( please try it as it's brilliant), I walk 5 days a week, swim( well walk up and down the pool) and have an exercise program which I do twice a week.
Just now I'm experience pains under both arms and in my back and neck, I spoke to the BC nurse today and said it sounded normal following treatment. I get very tired in the arvo and try to have a short rest everyday.
So Kath guess it all takes time. One day at a time is the best way to go. Look after yourself and be kind to yourself. Don't expect too much.
i hope this helps a little. The ladies on here are so sweet and caring. I don't post very often but read the posts which helps so much.
you may hate this saying but stay strong and determined.
Love Anne-Marie