All the best for tomorrow, getting your plan from the oncologist. It really helps to have a plan in place - you feel that things are underway to get rid of this wretched bc. There is a lot of research going into TNBC at the moment, so our treatment can be tailored much more than before. The good news is that your node was clear - guessing it was the sentinel node - and so the cancer hasn't travelled, and chemo will chase any cells that have managed to slip by. It is also good that your surgeon wants to give you better margins.
Do you have the Kit from this site? It is brilliant and has answers to every question you think of - also makes keeping records easier as they can get quite complex as treatment progresses.
Just take it one day at a time, Annie, and think of your gorgeous little girl. Treatment is all do-able, and there are posts on the site for dealing with chemo and rads that are so helpful. All the very best for tomorrow - will be thinking of you. Michelle x