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14 years ago

Tips for surgery

Hello to everyone out there I'm booked in for a double masectomy and reconstruction on the 26th June. Any tips or suggestions in preparing for my operation would appreciated. Cause sometimes you don't know what you don't know! Ange x

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  • Hi Ange, buy some new PJs, as these will be easier to manage with the drains. The nurses should also be able to give you a shoulder bag or drawer string bag to carry your drains in. These hide them from view, and make lugging them around a lot easier. I also agree with Mon. Do your research, and then be happy with your decision. I have finished my recon now, having had an immediate recon and a delayed one. The better result is from the immediate recon, but I am still very happy with both my boobs. I had expanders and then silicone implants. My first mastectomy was in Dec 2010, and the second one and reconstruction of both was 9 months later in September 2011 after chemo was finished. My only suggestion would be, to go a bit bigger than you think you want. I felt so large with the expanders, that I stopped at 500mls. I was a size 14B before, and didn't want to be larger. However, once the silicone is in, and the swelling goes down, it all looks a bit smaller than I thought. I am back to wearing my old underwire 14B bras, but I don't fill the top as well as before. In clothes they look terrific, and no one would probably notice. I just think that another 50 to 100mls might have filled this better. The expanders do not look as good as the implants, and I wish I had understood this better beforehand. My original breast weight was only 390g, so when my new implants were 495g each, I thought they would be huge. In hindsight, I could have gone larger, without looking too big. Good luck with your upcoming surgery. Love Chris xx

  • Hi Ange, buy some new PJs, as these will be easier to manage with the drains. The nurses should also be able to give you a shoulder bag or drawer string bag to carry your drains in. These hide them from view, and make lugging them around a lot easier. I also agree with Mon. Do your research, and then be happy with your decision. I have finished my recon now, having had an immediate recon and a delayed one. The better result is from the immediate recon, but I am still very happy with both my boobs. I had expanders and then silicone implants. My first mastectomy was in Dec 2010, and the second one and reconstruction of both was 9 months later in September 2011 after chemo was finished. My only suggestion would be, to go a bit bigger than you think you want. I felt so large with the expanders, that I stopped at 500mls. I was a size 14B before, and didn't want to be larger. However, once the silicone is in, and the swelling goes down, it all looks a bit smaller than I thought. I am back to wearing my old underwire 14B bras, but I don't fill the top as well as before. In clothes they look terrific, and no one would probably notice. I just think that another 50 to 100mls might have filled this better. The expanders do not look as good as the implants, and I wish I had understood this better beforehand. My original breast weight was only 390g, so when my new implants were 495g each, I thought they would be huge. In hindsight, I could have gone larger, without looking too big. Good luck with your upcoming surgery. Love Chris xx

  • Hi Ange

     

    Hope all goes well for your surgery. Please keep us posted. Would love to hear how you go.

    Will keep my fingers crossed all goes well

     

    Love Julie XX

  • Hi again,

    I'm happy with the choices I made after researching the benefits of immediate reconstruction, and this being a viable option presented to me by both surgeons.  I guess that's another tip - be happy with the choices/ decisions you've made.  I hope this makes sense, and is helpful.

    Take care too

    x

  • Hi again,

    I'm happy with the choices I made after researching the benefits of immediate reconstruction, and this being a viable option presented to me by both surgeons.  I guess that's another tip - be happy with the choices/ decisions you've made.  I hope this makes sense, and is helpful.

    Take care too

    x

  • Thanks Mon, I hope you are recovering well. What type of reconstruction did you choose? My only option is expanders, I quite happy about this, I think? Take care x
  • Hi Ange,

    Best wishes to you for your surgery.  Mine was (almost) 3 weeks ago; a double mastectomy and immediate reconstruction.

    Tips for you?  I researched as much as I could - I read up on my plastic surgeon, viewing before/ after photos on his site.  I also tried finding other women whose journey was similar to mine, and what options/ advice they were given.  I asked every question I could think of and helped prepare my kids for what lay ahead.  And then, although I didn't want to, I took that next step on this journey...

    I wish you well,

  • Hi Ange,

    Best wishes to you for your surgery.  Mine was (almost) 3 weeks ago; a double mastectomy and immediate reconstruction.

    Tips for you?  I researched as much as I could - I read up on my plastic surgeon, viewing before/ after photos on his site.  I also tried finding other women whose journey was similar to mine, and what options/ advice they were given.  I asked every question I could think of and helped prepare my kids for what lay ahead.  And then, although I didn't want to, I took that next step on this journey...

    I wish you well,