This is all new to me....help!

A very big thank you to the ladies who have responded (so far) - it is wonderful knowing that I am not alone.  I am having a pretty good day (have been distracted for most of it which is nice) and a friend just dropped around dinner and dessert :)

I was wondering if anyone has any feedback / reviews about the Gawler Retreat in Victoria (Yarra Valley).  A colleague of my husband has recommended it when his wife was battling breast cancer.  We are definitely going to give it a go although are unsure if we should do it before or after Chemo - any recommendations?  So much to think about but trying not to let this consume me if you know what I mean.

I feel really lucky to have your support on here :) xx