Hi Carol,
yes it is a whirlwind that can take some time to adjust now and after treatment,i was diagnosed almost 3 years ago, im back at work now and embracing a new normal. Its a real shock and everyone reacts differently. my advice to you would be to be good to yourself many women don't really know how to put themselves first, this is the time to do that, rest when you need to and don't feel guilty, say no if you need to and don't feel guilty, keeping a journal helped me especially when i was having treatment because you can't really think clearly so writing stuff down helps and also helps to remember things as you will be seeing lots of Dr's, etc and have lots of appointments and its really hard to remember all the information. We all are here to support you and having BCNA to get resources, information and support is invaluable. Stay strong, take each day as it comes - don't think too far ahead and ask for help.
thinking of you
Take care
Di