Constantly in this journey I've been humbled by the experience of others.
I'm so sorry to hear about your husband.
I had multiple tumours grade 3. I am stage 3 TNBC cancer.
I've tidied up all of our loose ends for my husband and myself.
My husband and I live in separate states.
I'm currently with him while he shifts 4500 kms to another.
He's got shingles and is not well.... But he's not terminal.
I've treated each day as a blessing.
God alone makes the decisions.... But I make daily choices.
I LIVE each day.
IF I die it's untimely not a tragedy.
The tragedy would be if I didn't LIVE each day.
I look and see joy every single day.
TNBC is not understood by the general public.
My oncologist said to me "trust the chemo.... Trust the chemo"...... So I embraced it!
The oncologist gave me anti viral anti fungal anti nausea anti poohing anti not poohing anti biotics anti anxiety anti pain anti non sleeping tablets.....
He said there is no need to have nasty side effects from chemo.
I live 1200 kms from the oncologist.
I went home with my own pharmacy and really didn't need most of them.
Trust the chemo.
Accept any offers of help.
Love yourself and your husband.
Embrace this journey which is your life.