From what I know it seems to be more common in the young from what I was told but research drives ya mad somedays. Take each day as it comes. My tumour was 3cm and 48 hours later I had a haematoma 3.5 cut out then 3rd op more lymph nodes. 2 chemo done 4 to go then radiation. Last week. Lost the plot and called the hotline that was great and then did an hour on phone counselling session day before chemo that is worthwhile. So whatever your feelin it's all okay remember that we don't have to be strong, best words the man on the hotline said to me whilst bawling when I didn't want to was "this is what coping really looks like. Take care do whatever you need to do, ask question to anybody, talk their heads off if you have to, and come back here for virtual hugs :-)