JJoy
15 years agoMember
The Journey
No wonder they call it a journey - It can be a real bumpy road. The past couple of months I have felt like I am in some kind of crazy bad dream. I have had the 'lumpectomy' then the partial mastecto...
JJoy you are not alone and are experiencing very similar emotions to me. I too have a wonderful husband who is trying so hard to cope with this. My children (son 18 and daughter 14) are still coming to grips with it. My son lives with his father (previous marriage and my daughter spends every 2nd week with him) so they are often not here to see my bad days which is a kind of blessing. My daughter is very focused and positive but my son never calls to see how I am and like you, this hurts me very much. He just thinks it will get fixed and Mum will be fine! I have very supportive friends, but all my family are in the UK and I still feel very lonely at times. Although, I think this site will help me. I too have a grade 3 and it was a large (5cm ) tumour which really scares me too. If you would like to add me as a contact to keep in touch, please do. I will upload a photo soon :)