Hi Kathy Jane
Sending big virtual hugs to you now that you know the diagnosis. Mine was very similar - DCIS as well as invasive in the left breast. I know that it was a surreal time (I got the diagnosis on my birthday this year - Jan 30!) but it was also incredibly important that I was able to gain some control - over the timing, the decisions about procedures, the surgeons I would engage, how I would communicate this news etc.
We are all here for you - with support and advice if you need it. If I can help with any questions, happy to...just let any of us know. We know how you're feeling because we've been there. But although we've all had BC (in its many and varied forms), each of us have had their own individual journey, as you will have yours.
All I can say, as unsolicited advice to start with, is to be true to yourself, to follow your own lead. This is one time in your life when you get to be selfish :).
Now, 2 months post-mastectomy, I am starting to feel more normal....but all along it's been what's been between my ears (ie my disposition; my attitude) which has provided me with the most strength.
Nikki xxxx