thanks so much Kath for your advice.. i am starting to realise that i might need a plan B and C... I will be looking at my super as well cos i guess at this stage I dont know what is going to happen after the mastectomy and if I need chemo or radiotherapy and getting there and home and doing everyday things.. My job is not hard but I do have to travel with it.. Im a Clinical Facilitator and the Uni's have so far been awesome and even said they will send Students to the Aged care Homes around where I live just to get me back to work if I need too.. Im hoping Sept will be right to go back ..
This is so bloody hard...