The Bitch That Bites!

Hi Heather. Wow that's a shame it didn't work out for you. My masectomy scar looks like it's going to be very tidy. Think I am very lucky and found a really great surgeon. I am happy with how it is and each day getting used to how I look now. Not that how I looked bothered me before, which is what I'm finding hard to deal with. Although last two days I have been out and about with no bra and in a strange way feels very natural and liberating. Might be different in summer but hey who knows then. As with a lot of this adventure it is all about choices. And having to make major decisions in a short space of time. Go with your gut, talk to those you love as they will love you regardless of the outside. Have a laugh and a cry about it. Or as I read on someone else's blog and can't remember whose - 'Yes they are fake, mine tried to kill me' Think when I get my prosthesis I will make up a new tshirt if can't find where to buy it from. And you will get lots of support from everyone here, but my advice talk to lots of people. Way up your options and in the end do what is right for you and what you can love with.