Good post: I do feel less 'dynamic' in general but the absence of libido is really odd: I feel instead of pink marathons and dragon boating there should be activities on finding my libido... Where did I lose it? I've done some research but it doesn't apply to me ie women who are adjusting to loss of breasts body image: that's all still good for me: I did have a conversation with oncologist and he raised other factors being possible but also raised idea of having 6 week tamoxafen holiday and seeing effect and possibly enjoying the effect.. But then u have to go back on it he says ther is some emerging evidence that after five years yearly breaks stop 'resistance' so that is Interesting I'm on lowest does of Effexor so I doubled it but no help so reduced it back to starter does which helps with side effects. I'm going to turn the libido issue into a project and of course it could be menapause etc so I'm interested in diet' supplement ts, using literature...any one have any ideas?