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I found my lump my self after reg mamograms :? I have a doctor that is really hard to see so by the time I saw her i was a bit anxious :/ she asked if i wanted to get it checked further & I said of c...
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Seriously... I guess you are probably both - frustrated and scared! Welcome to the club nobody chooses to be a member of!
I'm sorry you are having problems with getting your husband to help - been there, still there.... unfortunately they don't see it.... you have two choices... don't do anything. Eventually he'll run out of clean undies and socks so will have to learn to do washing... same with the dishes... or Ask him.... at some point you have to sit down with him and explain that it really sucks that your have Cancer, tell him you're scared... and ask him to help..... I know from experience. I have to be direct.. but unfortunately they do it in 'man time'... and probably not to the standard you want...
You are only at the start ...remember to take time for yourself... everything else can wait... if friends ask is there anything they can do... mention cleaning the house or making frozen dinners... you'll be pleasantly surprised at what they'll do.