welcome to the site, hopefully you will also find lots of support here. This is a greatplace to ask questions and vent along our journey.
I agree regarding the everyone has something to say, I think as human beings we feel we have to try and fix things, and to be honest we just can't. Also cringed along the way and thought how ignorant I was in the past.
I was diagnosed prior to christmas a couple of years ago and had my surgery the last day before my surgeon went on holiday. I waited 3 weeks for my path results, that was a very long 3 weeks I can tell you.
Stay in touvh.
Donna