TracyJ
12 years agoMember
Specialist today
So had my scans etc... This morning I am seeing the specialist to hopefully find out what I am dealing with . Why is it I am more scared of telling my mum ? She lives in the UK with all my other fami...
Telling my mum was the worst thing too because she has had breast cancer and a mastectomy and she would think that it was all her fault. I got my daughter to call her first and let the shock sink in and then I called her a few hours later. We had a few tears but when she heard how positive i was she said it made it a lot easier for her. We all try to protect our mums from hurt as we get older and there is no easy way of doing this but once you have told her it will be less stress for you because mums have this inbuilt thing that makes them handle anything life throws at their kids and they will always be there to make our problems easier. My mum has been great support even though I know she is hurting. Best wishes SueX