It is so hard , when you can not get answers. What upset me more was his attitude, that if it comes back you do not want to know, like you have no hope. I said to him, but if you pick it up early you can be on top of it. Was told it makes no difference in the end. Taking away hope is not right. I know if I ever got secondary I would be fighting to the last, like so many other women. We will never give up. I am going to look around for a more positive Dr. Thanks so much. So glad we have each other for support. Big hugs to all. Xxxxx