Hi Doona, so sorry about your diagnosis. One thing I found about this site is we have all been there and know exactly how you are feeling and you can say whatever is on your mind and be supported. The next week is going to be a busy one. I am only 12 days post left breast mastectomy surgery and still breathing through it. The best piece of advice and the most common you are going to see on this site is to concentrate on one area at a time. I found the more I read, the more I couldn't concentrate...so I just read and talked about the next step. Please let me know how you are going and what you have decided to do, we are close together in this journey. Xx