what a ride u are having...unfortunately sometimes things can't happen quickly enough but have faith in ur specialist team (they sound great)..they will play a huge part in ur new life now and often the process has to be 'ticked off' in order to ensure that nothing is missed...so all WILL be good and u sound like u have a great support network around you..with their help, ur strength and ur chemo team u will get to a stage of feeling well (altho it is hard to imagine right now)...secondary can be a scary thought (living with it myself), but if u can achieve some great results then u can enjoy some normality again, trust me...
enjoy your family and friends (maybe just lots of cuddles on the left side) and certainly come here for more support as u need it..we are all here to help :)
Good luck
Sam :)