Hi Tonya, it seems our story isn't so unique. I'm glad you made the changes you needed. I have also lost my dad from dementia and mum is now in a full time care facility. I really miss both of them. My kids are four and a half hours away, but I have just discovered skype so can see them more often. This bugger of a thing is definitely not straight forward. I feel like its a big waiting game and we just have to do what we can to stay strong and healthy. Will start to make some changes. Take care. X Candy