Second time around
I am new to this but feel the need to touch base with others to see if the way I'm feeling is a common thing. My first diagnosis was in 2004. I was 44 and had no family history and generally fit and h...
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Hi Candace,I just wanted to say that it's great that you have posted on here about how you are feeling.I am not exactly like you ,but I think that after all that you have been through,it is NO WONDER that you feel exhausted,and have no confidence! I am a Mum of 3 and I also have some foster children that have lived with us for several years now.I can definitely relate to 'not good at putting yourself first',and I bet there are many others on here who feel the same way.Too many of us Mums put the rest of the family first,but in saying that,it's up to is to change it! Easier said than done though:)Is there any way that you could work less, then maybe have some time for yourself.Do you have any interests that you would like to follow.Since my mastectomy and chemo,( also chose not to have reconstruction)I have really enjoyed taking time to look after myself better.I eat better,I read more,and I walk or ride my bike,every day.Some people say that they are too tired for exercise,but it actually makes you feel better,and alleviates fatigue.I have found myself slipping back into old ways from time to time,but I am determined not to let this happen.I hope you can find a way to make time for yourself,and stay on this network,because it is very therapeutic,not only for you but other ladies that are in the same boat as you.TAKE CARE ((hug)) Robyn xox