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mum2jj
12 years agoMember
Mandy, I so get what you mean about your Mum! My parents who are getting on a bit came and stayed when I was about two weeks post op from my tram flap recon. OMG. I did not lift a finger, they really looked after me.... Drove my hubby and kids mad, but were such a help to me. I am 51 and still needed Mum to look after me, so 44 was nothing.
Try and think you can do this!!! I have to believe it, as I don't like the alternative much ;). I struggle with anxiety at times and that is my biggest battle. That's why I started to meditate. I find it helps keep me calm. Just 15 mins a day can really help. I think BCNA have a good relaxation cd which could be a good starting point. How much longer until you finish chemo?
Sending you a hug.
Paula xxxx