It would be so nice not to have to make any of these awful decisions but alas,we have to.All you can do is ask questions,research and then go with your gut- what feels right for you at the time- then have no regrets.What I have learnt is not to rush important decisions and not to put blind faith in statistics and doctors.We are all unique and so is our breast cancer pathology and journey. Infact. I think the medical profession is realising this and the future of chemo will be a more personalised approach ie. tailer made chemo combos, As much as I hate being lopsided, I'm loathe to do anything about it now but I may change my mind in the future- who knows Right now I'm just glad to have a future! love to all, Tonya xx