Round Two

Hi there, after being off line for a little while I come back to find you have been misbehaving!!!!

When are you off to have all of your scans etc and has a definate date been set for you to see the oncologists?  Maybe you should pop in to see your local hairdresser and get a short fashionable bob .... for summer of course!!!  That will take them by surprise ... tell them you can be responsible for your own hair-do thank-you very much.

I can't say I know what you are going through because I don't ..... I do know however that you will give it your best shot  and fight a good fight but you don't have to be the toughest kid on the block.

Call in for a chat whenever you feel like it, and make sure you give us an update on your results and treatment plans.  You know we are a nosey lot and wil give you no peace until we know everything!!!!

I know that you want to stay strong  and cheery so those near and dear to you won't be sad but don't rob them of their own emotions. YOU are THEIR loved one and you are all on this new scary journey together.  Let them in - don't shut them out!!!

......so says the wise one as she reaches for the tissues!!!

Look after yourself sweetheart .... Shirl xxxxx