Your scalp is very tender when your hair first falls out.It doesn't last though,maybe only 3 or 4 weeks.I am glad you feel better with your wigs:) I never bought a wig,only hats,turbans and bandanas.I am 59.I don't really like the bandanas,but I have a bamboo turban,from the cancer council,which is my favourite thing ever!:) It is so cool in the hot weather, and fits so well.Whenever I wear it I get lots of compliments,and my husband loves it too !Dont force yourself to get out if you don't feel like it.What's the bet that a couple of weeks after losing your hair,you will start to get used to it.All new things like this require a period of adjustment.One day at a time:). Sending you happy thoughts. xoxoxo Robyn.