I can imagine putting yourself out there for a possible relationship is going to be difficult (hell - it'd be difficult at any time) and having two breasts would give you more confidence, but would you really want to be with someone who couldn't deal with the reality of bc? Easy to say, I know - much harder to do. It's almost impossible to make a good decision when your brain is too full of anxiety to think properly. But whichever way you go @megs04, it's your decision - as long as you're getting the right info to base it on.