I am sorry to hear of your secondary diagnosis.I don't have this,but I do know that there are many ladies on here with bone mets that have been living and working just fine,for many years.Hopefully some of them will see your post and respond to you shortly.Would you mind if I ask how did you find that you had bone mets? I am sure that I would be scared too,but I feel that if you can , try and look at the statistics,and know that this is NOT the end.Also,every day in Australia,great steps are being made in treating this.A lady with mets,posted on here a couple of weeks ago,"I am waiting around for the cure!!" I thought to myself when I read it,what a great outlook,and with advances in BC treatment in Australia,very,very possible!!! Please stay in touch,and I am sure that others with a similar story will reply to you soon.Robyn.xox