Thanks Cheryl,
I have had the BRCA test and got the results (negative) just prior to surgery - and had a bilateral mastectomy to tackle this head-on. Originally I was told that if I had breast conservation surgery (ie a lumpectomy) I would need radiation after chemo and surgery. I've had chemo and surgery and thought that most of the "work" was behind me. This changed on Tuesday when my radiation oncologist gave me my three options - and a week to respond.
I'm trying to research as much as possible. And I thought this forum would be the perfect place to do that! I've also contacted my surgeon to get his input. Friends have been invaluable too. Ultimately, though, I know I have to be at peace with this...