Hi Sarah, your post reads like a carbon copy of mine a few months ago... Get as informed as you can. I got 2 opinions and asked a lot of questions. I decided to go ahead with radiotheraphy as my cancer was grade 3 aggressive with a high recurrence. It had also spread to one lymphnode out of 30 ( stage 2) had left breast removed, lump was about 4cm.. It was more the aggressiveness that swayed me.. But in saying that, do what's right for yourself. It can be so subjective. I just thought throw everything I can at it. When I met with my doctors I asked them both the following question.." If you were me what would you do"? All the best? Donna