Hi Adrienne,
My husband is a real numbers person so I take him with me to every consult. He asks about numbers and percentages, like what is the real benefit of this drug, what are the stats on survival and recurrence and so on. This all just goes straight over my head and he explains it all to me on the way home. I also ask about the side effects I am having and how long I should wait for them to settle down and/or subside. I'd also be asking about bone density testing, how often should I have it. There is also research out that says we should stay on Arimidex for 10 years instead of 5 for a better outcome!! I mentioned this last time and the onc said it was still a wait and see approach, especially as I have just started on the journey.
I suppose it is all so personal, depending on your own circumstances and everyone reacts to a drug in different ways. But if nothing else, write yourself a list of questions and add to it as you think of more to ask and take it with you on the day. I have found both my rad and med oncs to be patient and willing to listen and answer any questions I have had. I'm sure you will find yours the same. Also, if I have an issue, I mention it to my breast care nurse. If she doesn't know, she contacts the relevant onc straight away to get the answer for me.
Good luck ... let's know how you go.
Hugs
San-Dee