Thankyou so much for your message, I am sadden to hear of the passing of your mother and grandmother, after loosing my Aunty i can understand the heart ache. I have felt some comfort from your message that someone understands my position.
i have also visited with a breast cancer specialist, who agreed with my concern and will support my decision to have this operation, but has reccomended that i wait until i have children, what your have written is exactly how i feel and would much rather be stress free and healthly for my children than run the risk of becoming sick, i also feel it is important the have the operation before children so i am not going through such major recovery with small children, the thought of not being able to pick up my child if they fall due to my recover would break my heart.
i would love to hear about your progress and your journey, i feel it would be such a support and very insperational for someone going through something simular.
i wish you the best of luck and i truely believe your a strong women.
Kind regrads,
Penelope