Post Op Mania
Hello to all my new friends. I left hospital lunchtime yesterday. Prior to operation I spent 4 hours at radiology being poked proded, stung with multiple needles, all searching for the elusive sen...
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OMG,I'd kill him!! I guess he didn't tell you where he was going cos he knew it wasn't the right thing to do.However,if he had told you he was going to the pub for abit of time out,you probably would have been more ok about it.No doubt the last few weeks have been a strain for him and men go into their "caves"to work it out. You do feel very vulnerable after surgery,maybe you were putting on too brave a face.You can hate being needy and vulnerable but the truth is you ARE at the moment and have every right to be.I totally understand how hurt and disappointed you must feel.Well,time for hubby to redeem himself and for you to tell him exactly what you need him to do. It sounds like your time in radiology was worse than the actual surgery! Maybe they plan it that way!!! It's hard waiting a week for your results but that's the usual.Just rest and be waited on- shouldn't be doing anything much,especially not drivingaround at night,
Tonya xx