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Ranveig
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12 years ago

post -op

Well here I am one week on, seem to have recovered quite well from my op. my right arm is a little sore just now but I suspect that the nerves are starting to wake up again. had the drainage tubes removed this morning and immediately felt better. at least I don't have extra baggage to cart about now - thank goodness. what i did find odd was to have a pain in the breast that is no longer there, spoke to breast nurse and it's psychosomatic - similar to those who lose a limb and can feel it. I have to admit that I'm bright enough that I did recognise that it could be that and hey I was right!! tomorrow I have an appt with surgeon for review and results. wounds seem to be healing quite well which is pleasing. I feel confident that I will get used to how I look - to be honest I have found it more confronting to see myself without hair!! but now the hair is grwoing back too, could very well have a fair bit by Christmas - hooray. Radiotherapy to commence once wounds have healed so early Jan I would think, 5 weeks of 5 times a week. It has meant a lot to have somewhere to vent I must say. my daughter finds it difficult to sope at times and right now she's the housekeeper but it won't hurt her and it's good training!!

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  • That's such great news. I remember in Hosptial being told I was cancer free and I did burst into hysterical tears. So I totally understand your emotions. Don't worry about 'hitting' some lows. That's why they say this is a 'roller coaster'. One minute we're up, the next we're down. Hopefully there will be more ups than downs for you now. Ranveig, you may be lucky, if you are put on hormone tablets, to not experience many side effects similar to your original menopause, not having them. If that makes sense :). Fingers crossed hey. Love Janey xxx
  • Great to hear you are doing well. I can understand the hysterical tears of joy, goodness knows, we shed enough of the other types of tears. I am now halfway through my chemo, haven't suffered all the terrible side effects, well, not yet anyway. It certainly did it's job with reducing your lumps and your future looks bright. Best wishes for your future health, take care, 

    Hazel xx

  • Lovely to hear that you are continuing to recover well. I guess you'll have your results by now and I hope that all is good. With Christmas just around the corner, it'll be a nice present for you to ditch the head coverings for good. I've got quite a bit of hair growing back but I'm not confident yet to go around without my scarves. I suppose I could but I've gotten so used to my scarves so not wearing them, for me, still speaks more loudly that I am a cancer victim with this patchy regrowth and it's curling and grey. Not ready at all for that. Well maybe in a couple of weeks and when it's hot I might take the plunge. Funny about the missing limbs scenario. I sometimes gets an itch in my 'new' breasts and I want to scratch it but they don't have any feeling and it's the oddest thing. I can't even feeling myself scratching so where's the itch coming from? You're right in this being a good place to vent so vent away and we'll be listening. Happy hair growing :) Janey xxx
  • Lovely to hear that you are continuing to recover well. I guess you'll have your results by now and I hope that all is good. With Christmas just around the corner, it'll be a nice present for you to ditch the head coverings for good. I've got quite a bit of hair growing back but I'm not confident yet to go around without my scarves. I suppose I could but I've gotten so used to my scarves so not wearing them, for me, still speaks more loudly that I am a cancer victim with this patchy regrowth and it's curling and grey. Not ready at all for that. Well maybe in a couple of weeks and when it's hot I might take the plunge. Funny about the missing limbs scenario. I sometimes gets an itch in my 'new' breasts and I want to scratch it but they don't have any feeling and it's the oddest thing. I can't even feeling myself scratching so where's the itch coming from? You're right in this being a good place to vent so vent away and we'll be listening. Happy hair growing :) Janey xxx
  • Hazel,

    i have just read your posts on hair loss. I had mine shaved off prior to treatment so i didn't go through the tender scalp or anything, it was all just gone. it does feel a bit odd though doesn't it? i have to say I never got used to seeing myself without hair and have spent most of the time wearing hats/scarves of some description or other. i feel more 'normal' than just going about being bald. i wasn't brave enough to just own it although sometimes when I have struck someone being really rude and the like I just want to pull off the hat and say to them get over yourself, there are some of us who have bigger problems than yours!! i thank you for your good wishes and take this opportunity to wish for you the same. - hope all goes well with your treatment and do take care of yourself.

    Ranveig

  • Glad you are recovering from your op. Have just started losing my hair, but it must be encouraging to have yours growing back. I'm having 2nd looks when i pass a mirror:) Hope you continue to keep getting better. Take care, 

    Hazel xx

  • Glad you are recovering from your op. Have just started losing my hair, but it must be encouraging to have yours growing back. I'm having 2nd looks when i pass a mirror:) Hope you continue to keep getting better. Take care, 

    Hazel xx