Phyllodes Tumor - Anyone else out there?

Thank you for that..I keep second guessing every thought and emotion I have in relation to the tumour. i think part of it is because of the limited information that is available and because i can barely comprehend that its classified as cancer without being cancer....it's a strange concept. I am unsure how to find the support group but I'm sure I will find it soon. When you went to have the lumpectomy done did you feel silly? I think the lack of concern from my family is making me feel like I shouldn't be concerned either because 'it's not cancer'. Warm wishes, Kristy